The Joy Business: Desmond Tutu and the Dalai Lama

The Joy Business

What does the world need now? The Cobb Institute for Process and Practice highlights four principles, four goals, four values:

whole persons
whole (compassionate) communities
a whole planet
holistic thinking (linking art, science, and spirituality)

Our aim at the Cobb Institute is to help foster these values through our educational offerings and our work in local communities, often in collaboration with one of our most important partners, the University of La Verne.

When it comes to holistic thinking, we at the Cobb Institute recommend a process-relational worldview. If you are interested in learning about this way of thinking, please see the visual snapshots at the bottom of this page. They will give you a sense for it. But we know that any form of thinking, process or otherwise, has its value in how it serves the other three goals: whole persons, whole communities, and a whole planet.

As we think about what it means to be a whole person, we are guided by the wisdom of one of the world’s largest multi-faith networks: Spirituality and Practice, based in Claremont, California, as are we. The folks at Spirituality and Practice offer a multi-faith "spiritual alphabet" that helps name the qualities of heart and mind that help sustain whole persons and nourish whole communities. Here it is:

attention -  beauty -  being present -  compassion -  connections  -  devotion -  enthusiasm -  faith
forgiveness - grace -  gratitude - hope - hospitality - imagination - joy -  justice - kindness - listening
love -  meaning -  nurturing -  openness -  peace - play -  questing -  reverence - shadow - silence
teachers -  transformation -  unity -  vision - wonder -  x, the mystery -  yearning -  you -  zeal

Please note that “J” is for joy.” In our time of social fragmentation, political dysfunction, global climate change, culture wars, and gaps between rich and poor, we all need and seek the sustenance of joy. We all need to find happiness in troubled times. The Fourteenth Dalai Lama and the late Archbishop Desmond Tutu help evoke just what is needed, plus more. Their laughter is contagious, as is their wisdom. They are in the joy business.

The Ludwig Center at the University of La Verne (California) will offer a free screening on Tuesday, Feb. 22, 2022. After the film screening (1.5 hours), they will offer a 45-minute discussion led by a panel of interfaith leaders from the local community. The screening and discussion will take place at the University of La Verne's Ludwick Center Sacred Space (1928 Bonita Ave, La Verne, Ca 91750). To join virtually, please register here.

Mission: Joy - Finding Happiness in

Troubled Times

Directed by Louie Psihoyos, Peggy Callahan

Two spiritual masters of the practice of joy in conversation
about its relevance to our times.

Film review by Frederic and Mary Ann Brussat
reposted from Spirituality and Practice

This inspiring and edifying documentary is directed by Academy Award- winning director Louie Psihoyos and co-director Peggy Callahan. It was filmed during the 2015 visit by Archbishop Desmond Tutu to Dharamsala in India for His Holiness The Dalai Lama's 80th birthday. Those conversations led to their New York Times bestseller The Book of Joy: Lasting Happiness in a Changing World.

The film opens as the Dalai Lama meets Archbishop Tutu's plane, and they share a warm greeting. These two Nobel Peace Prize laureates call themselves "mischievous brothers" and, unlike many spiritual teachers who eschew laughter and play, these two model those joyful practices as they smile, chuckle, embrace, hold hands, guffaw, and laugh boisterously.

Interviewed by Doug Abrams, they talk about how they how regard joy as the secret to happiness and the antidote to anger, hatred, selfishness, violence, revenge and other egocentric emotions that separate people from each other. They discuss learning from their enemies, embodying humility, practicing silence, the use of meditation and prayer for health and healing, and the freeing nature of forgiveness. The Dalai Lama's long-time translator Thupten Jinpa adds context and his own reflections on these subjects. Tutu's daughter, Mpho Tutu van Furth, does the same in light of her father's ministry.

Several powerful scenes find these two friends and spiritual leaders walking through the community of Dharamsala. At the birthday party at the Tibetan Children's School, they listen to the stories of children who have fled Tibet. In response to one girl who becomes sad while talking about leaving her parents, the Dalai Lama offers her courage and Tutu, comfort.

Historical footage and animation fill the viewer in on why the Dalai Lama left Tibet after the Chinese invasion and how Archbishop Tutu endured racist attacks under apartheid in South Africa. Both continued to risk their lives through the practice of nonviolence. For them, suffering became an opportunity to learn and find new ways to be of great service to the world. Taking care of others, they assert, is the best way to have a happy life. The Archbishop says that suffering is how we become compassionate. The Dalai Lama quotes a Tibetan saying that suffering is what makes you appreciate joy.

From start to finish, this documentary simmers with laughter, humor, and play. It all adds up to a fresh and fine reframing of joy and its predominant place in the spiritual life. We were reminded of these quotes about laughter:

"Of all the gifts bestowed by nature on human beings, hardy laughter must be close to the top."
-- Norman Cousins in The Heart's Code by Paul Pearsall

"Humor is a prelude to faith, and laughter is the beginning of prayer."
-- Reinhold Niebuhr, American theologian

"Laughter sets the spirit free to move through even the most tragic
circumstances."
-Gerald Coffee in The Courage to Laugh by Allen Klein

An OPS production, In Association with The John Templeton Foundation, The Fetzer Institute, In Association with Diamond Does, Idea Architects, Voices4Freedom, 06/21
DVD/Streaming Documentary